For the past couple years August has been a difficult month. People say time heals...in realty it doesnt. Bullshit shit ppl say to make ppl feel better. Time does not heal, all it does is makes u use to the pain, the void, u feel. It helps u develop a new normal, teaches u to live with the pain for the rest of ur life. Live with the absence. So pls do me a favor, instead of telling ppl time will heal or be strong, just stay quiet and say nothing. Times like this the person does not need ur advise, they just want u to quietly be there and let them cry, let them be emotional, just let them be.